Tuesday, May 27, 2008

How to Fall in Love With a Best Friend

Best friends are great to have for their support, good conversation and companionship during times, both good and bad. Fortunately, they also make great lovers. The intimacy, communication and respect you need to make a relationship work flow naturally from friendships, especially strong ones. Falling in love with your best friend can feel a little scary, but once you move beyond the initial fears of the relationship, you only have years of partnership and passion to gain.



Allow yourself to consider your best friend as a potential mate. Many of us keep our best friends at a romantic distance to keep things from getting messy, but opening your heart is the first step toward love.


Save your worrying for areas in life other than love. Don't think that taking your relationship to the next level will permanently scar the friendship if it doesn't work out. Being best friends automatically gives you the strength to persevere, regardless of what happens in the end.


Imagine being intimate with your best friend. Think about how adding this dimension to your friendship would make you feel.


Consider sharing your feelings with your best friend to see if he she feels the same. Love's a two-way street, and you'll only set yourself up for heartache if your friend doesn't reciprocate your admiration.


Make a concerted effort to spend quality time with your friend. Although you're likely already hanging out, placing an emphasis on the friendship gives you an idea of what being in a romantic relationship might be like.


Go on a few quasi-romantic outings together. Going to dinner, seeing movies and taking walks all put you and your friend in romantic situations without explicitly having to go on dates.


Follow your heart. Don't force yourself to feel one way or another about your friend. Focus instead on simply enjoying the time you spend with her.


Kahapon ko pa dapat naipost to.. Kasi para kahapon to e :) Uhh, kala ko ok na si Ezo. Pero right now.. Ayun nagsasakit sakitan pa rin sya.. Huh?! Whats wrong ba talaga?! Ang saya ko pa naman kagabi pagkita kung ok na sya.. Yun pala.. Hell, pinaasa lang ako ni Ezo. Ahaha.. At eto he broke may hearty heart heart again.. Awww!

Haha.. Yesterday was a complete total disaster. Para nanaman kasi akong t*nga. Uhm, naging emo ako tapos naging sobrang happy. I don't undestand why people s*ck!! Anyways, I LOVE YOU. Awww. Hope you love me tooooo :)

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